Avoiding travel fees: Here are the shocking ways people are doing it!

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By Christopher Elliott

In this commentary: Fee fatigue has pushed travelers to the limit

in this commentary

  • Travelers are so fed up with junk fees that they’re resorting to extreme measures, from driving everywhere to outright lying about their kids’ ages.
  • The article reveals the creative (and sometimes deceptive) tactics people use to fight back against luggage fees, seat selection charges, and hidden resort fees.
  • Is this a “silent protest” against an unfair system, or do two wrongs not make a right? This explores whether travelers are justified in their fight.

How far would you go to avoid a travel fee? 

Jodi Blodgett is so sick of all the extras that she’s stopped flying.

“I avoid travel fees by driving,” she says. Not only can she skirt ridiculous fees for luggage, but she also doesn’t have to pony up more cash for the seat assignment and other junk fees the airlines charge her.

How far would you go? Would you pack less? Skip a nice hotel? 

Would you lie?

After an exhausting record year of travel, maybe we’re all suffering from a little fee fatigue. Travelers are furious — and it’s not just people like Blodget who have sworn off flying. 

Inflated fees put a damper on summer travel, with more people either staying with friends or family or not traveling at all. Bad service can be costly to a business. The latest National Customer Rage Survey, citing record consumer dissatisfaction, estimates that companies are risking $887 billion a year in future revenue, up from $494 billion in 2020. (Related: Here are the most ridiculous travel fees ever!)

You can’t always avoid flying. Blodgett, who works as a photographer in Webster, Mass., says it’s easy to reach a client in the tri-state area by car. But for longer distances, you have to head to the airport. 

“Still,” she says, “I go to great lengths.”

Actually, many of us are going to great lengths to avoid these preposterous surcharges.

Your voice matters: How far would you go to avoid a travel fee?

Your voice matters

Fee fatigue is pushing travelers to the limit, from driving instead of flying to telling little white lies. We want to hear where you draw the line.

  • What’s the most extreme thing you’ve done to avoid a travel fee (luggage, seat selection, resort fees)?
  • Is it ever acceptable to ‘bend the rules’ or lie to avoid a fee you think is unfair? Why or why not?
  • If companies were more transparent, would you be more willing to pay for extras, or are you just done with fees altogether?

Oh, the things we do to avoid a fee!

Here are some of the creative ways travelers have been sidestepping fees.

  • Avoiding luggage fees by packing like a minimalist. This year, with almost every major U.S. airline jacking up their checked luggage fees, the response from passengers was predictable. “I’m packing minimally and efficiently,” says Daniel Rivera, who runs a property management company in East Rutherford, N.J. “I put everything in a single bag that I can stow under the seat in front of me.” (Related: Travelers are drowning in junk fees during the summer of surcharges.)
  • Not paying seat selection fees — and ending up in a middle seat. Kevin Mercier, a project manager for an auto manufacturer in Paris, says he’s taken “extreme” measures to avoid seat selection fees. Not paying them means he ends up in a middle seat, but he’s fine with that. ” I was willing to endure the cramped conditions and lack of privacy because the cost of selecting a preferred seat was substantial,” says Mercier, who is also a travel photographer.
  • Avoiding hotel resort fees by booking somewhere else. Hotel resort fees are mandatory fees added to your hotel bill after the hotel quotes you a room rate, and sometimes much later. Christian Strange, an insurance agent from Virginia Beach, Va., says he won’t darken the door of a hotel that charges a “gotcha” resort fee. On a recent trip to Miami, he skipped the large chain hotel with a resort fee and stayed at a boutique hotel a few blocks from the beach. “The location still allowed me to enjoy the area — but at a fraction of the cost,” he says. He’s not alone. I hear from travelers all the time who say they’ll never stay at a hotel with a resort fee.

These strategies for avoiding a fee reflect a broader shift in traveler behavior, says Ramzy Ladah, an attorney and frequent air traveler from Las Vegas. 

“People are fed up with being nickel-and-dimed, and they’re pushing back in the only ways they know how,” he says. “It’s about taking back control.”

Top comment: The real fix is regulation, not ‘gaming the system’
🏆 YOUR TOP COMMENT

I don’t blame anyone for snapping. You can’t even check in without being upsold anymore. But I agree, if we all start gaming the system, it just gives airlines and hotels more reason to tighten the screws. The real fix has to come from regulation and real competition.

— Jennifer
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Would you lie or cheat to avoid a fee?

One of the most intriguing questions is whether travelers would lie or cheat to avoid a fee. What’s a cheat? For a few years, passengers could game Southwest Airlines’ “Early Bird” access to its seats. One traveler would pay extra to board early and then saved seats for the rest of the party. That infuriated some passengers. (Alas, Southwest closed that loophole and is now moving to assigned seating, so no more Early Bird cheat-cheats.)

If the Department of Transportation gets its way, airlines would soon be barred from charging fees to assign seats for kids 13 or under next to their parent or accompanying adult. And although passengers must give their birthdays when they buy an airline ticket, I’ve also met plenty of air travelers who have lied about their kids’ ages to bypass these fees. (Related: Do I really owe Budget $450 for cleaning my rental car? It’s just a little sand!)

Resort fees are also easy to avoid with a little insider knowledge. You can use a corporate booking code that allows you to avoid paying the fee. That’s right, corporate travel managers have negotiated these nuisance fees away — but only for their employees. And those with the booking code. (I’m not endorsing this strategy in any way.) (Related: What happened to my $3,157 flight credit? And how do I use it?)

So will passengers bend a fact or two in order to avoid paying a bill? No doubt about it. And the reason is simple: People feel the fees are unfair, and often charged after a travel company quotes them a rate. It’s basically a lie. And they feel that if they’re being lied to, they have a license to lie right back.

But two wrongs don’t make a right. You’re better off avoiding these airlines and hotels than giving them your business. 

Now what happens to these fees?

We’re not in a good place, observers say.

“The proliferation of fees has led to a more complex and less transparent booking process, where the initial price seen by the traveler can be misleading,” says Raymond Yorke, a spokesman for Redpoint Travel Protection. “This has fueled a rise in fee-avoidance behavior as travelers seek to control costs.”

Yorke says it also points to a broader issue within the travel industry where the emphasis on ancillary revenue has overshadowed customer satisfaction. In other words, travel companies care more about money than they do about you. (Here’s our guide to traveling this summer.)

I know, big surprise.

And despite your creative avoidance strategies, travel companies — particularly airlines — seem more addicted to fees than ever. And they don’t have to stop. There are no laws to prevent them from inventing new surcharges or from increasing existing ones. They don’t have to justify the increases, either. 

Unfortunately, since many travel companies dominate their markets, there’s no meaningful competition. (Again, that’s especially true for U.S. airlines.) So travelers may go to extremes to avoid fees. But in the end, if they want to travel, they’ll have to pay up.

Our fee-avoidance is more than a few money-saving tricks. It’s a form of silent protest against an industry that’s lost its way. Travel should expand our horizons, not shrink our wallets. 

Infographic: Your guide to fighting junk fees (the right way)

Your guide to fighting junk fees (the right way)

How to protest surcharges without breaking the rules

Level 1: The easy protest

Vote with your wallet. The simplest protest is avoidance. Actively book with airlines and hotels that advertise all-in pricing. If a hotel charges a resort fee, find one that doesn’t.
Pack like a minimalist. Refuse to pay checked bag fees by packing everything into a single carry-on. This forces you to be efficient and saves you money on every flight.

Level 2: The vocal protest

Complain to the company. Don’t just argue with the front desk. Send a polite, firm email to the executive contacts. This gets your complaint out of the customer service queue and in front of a decision-maker.
Dispute the charge. If a company hits you with a fee that was not clearly disclosed at the time of booking, file a credit card dispute. “Not as described” or “service not rendered” can be powerful tools.

Level 3: The formal protest

File a government complaint. For airline fees, file a complaint with the Department of Transportation. For hotels, contact your state’s Attorney General. This creates an official record of the company’s bad behavior.
Seek advocacy help. If the company still won’t budge, contact a consumer advocacy organization. Sometimes, a third-party mediator is what it takes to get a fair resolution.
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Is it ever acceptable to lie (e.g., about a child's age) to avoid an "unfair" travel fee?
What you’re saying: You’re stuck in an arms race of fees vs. loopholes

What you’re saying

You’re fed up with the relentless upselling and fees. As top commenter Jennifer says, you can’t even check in anymore without a sales pitch. But you’re also worried that “gaming the system” just gives companies “more reason to tighten the screws,” and that the only real fix is regulation.

  • It’s an exhausting game

    You feel stuck in a battle of wits. As Laura puts it, “airlines keep inventing fees, and travellers keep finding loopholes.” For TravelingMe, the “cheat code” is elite loyalty status, which waives most fees. Meanwhile, LPBud questions why simply *refusing* an optional fee (like for a seat) is considered “extreme” at all.

  • … and “gaming” has consequences

    Frank Loncar confirms Jennifer’s fear, noting that strict 24-hour hotel cancellation policies exist precisely because travelers *were* gaming the system by booking multiple hotels and canceling at the last minute. As Gerri Hether warns, “Two wrongs have never made a right.”

  • Some are just opting out

    Many of you have just accepted fees as part of the price. AJPeabody says he just “mentally adds $75” to any air or hotel price. Others, like S.Lynn and RightNow9435, have given up on flying and certain hotels entirely, finding it “cheaper and better” to drive. All agree with myterp: the only power you have is to “vote with your wallet.”

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Christopher Elliott

Christopher Elliott is the founder of Elliott Advocacy, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization that empowers consumers to solve their problems and helps those who can't. He's the author of numerous books on consumer advocacy and writes three nationally syndicated columns. He also publishes the Elliott Report, a news site for consumers, and Elliott Confidential, a critically acclaimed newsletter about customer service. If you have a consumer problem you can't solve, contact him directly through his advocacy website. You can also follow him on X, Facebook, and LinkedIn, or sign up for his daily newsletter.

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