When you make a reservation online, your e-mail address is captured by the airline, car rental company, cruise line or hotel. Where it goes after that is anyone’s guess. But Mark Stechbart knows where his address ended up. After making a reservation at a Ramada property last year, it landed in an enormous marketing database, which has been spamming him with unwanted messages ever since.
“Please make them stop!” he asked me in a recent email.
Here’s his story:
“I visited a Ramada in Fort Collins, Colo., last summer,” he wrote. “Big mistake — a truly horrible property. While making the phone reservations, I asked the agent to not send me any e-mails other than the immediate reservation confirmation.”
That didn’t happen. He received one e-mail after the confirmation, then another. He wrote to Betsy O’Rourke, senior vice president for marketing and communications at Wyndham Worldwide (Ramada’s parent company) and to the investor relations department. Both times, he received form responses — but the spam kept coming.
“Can you embarrass them into stopping?” he asked.
Probably not. But I do have a few ideas on how to end the spam:
» Opt out. Every commercial e-mail message should have an “unsubscribe” function at the end. Click on it, but be patient. It can take several weeks to clean your address out of every database.
» Block it. A lot of e-mail programs will let you label a particular message as spam. If there’s no “unsubscribe” feature then I would consider it to be malicious spam — sent with the knowledge that the message is unsolicited and probably unwanted. Block the sender and the sender’s domain.
» Escalate your case. Sending a friendly “please stop” e-mail to the powers that be in the marketing department might work. Then again, it might not. (In Stechbart’s case, I’d say the jury is still out.)
» Report ‘em. You can forward unwanted spam to the government at spam@uce.gov. The Federal Trade Commission uses the spam stored in its database to pursue law enforcement actions against people who send deceptive e-mail. You can also report it to spam databases such as SpamCop.
Bottom line: you don’t have to put up with spam. Especially from a legitimate travel company.
Christopher Elliott is the author of Scammed: How to Save Your Money and Find Better Service in a World of Schemes, Swindles, and Shady Deals. Critics have called it “eye-opening” and “inspiring” — it’ll “grab your attention and won’t let go.” Order your copy now on Amazon, Barnes & Noble or iTunes.

Elliott is consumer advocate
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